My apologies that it has taken me so long to do this! But here is my blog focusing on your suggestions because I'm rubbish and forget to blog very consistently!!
Describe your perfect male?
Hmmm, interesting questions, to be honest I really struggle to answer something like that because I've never met them! They'd be confident but humble, intelligent but not cocky, funny but not in a cruel or crude way, kind but not so much that they let people walk all over them, in a way, my perfect male would be someone who was similar to how I want to be but male. Able to have a real argument about something and not just dissolve in to tears or walk out! That is a very difficult question LeeLee, but a good one nonetheless!
Do you think people can change?
Yes, unequivocally yes. But I don't think they can do it consciously. Change is something that happens slowly over time, like the way that water can completely change the landscape of something over a period of millions of years without you even noticing that it was doing it. I know I've changed a lot over the years and I know I will continue to change as different things affect and influence me. I've seen people change in different ways before my eyes, from people that I like in to people that I don't and the other way around.
However I don't think you can change yourself just because you say you are going to. Change is something that takes a lot of time and its usually caused by outside things that affect you.
In other news...
I don't like my job particularly :(
I know it's money and everything but its making me so tired and its messing with my sleep patterns and it is a contributing factor to why I'm so behind in my Dissertation. I don't know if I'm going to be able to keep it up.
Also, some people need to think about how their actions affect the feelings of others. Seriously.
